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Don and Judy Sleight Laid
to Rest at Evergreen Washelli on the 12th
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 Family from all over the State gathered in
Seattle to
attend the graveside service for Don and Judy.
Don's ashes were placed in Judy's
coffin.
Jon Sleight asked Randy to act
as the officiant. Randy read the burial service found
in the Anglican Book of Common Prayer. He also had
those attending recite the Lord's Prayer, but it was evident
that the majority did not know it. 
Two
songs were played on a digital device, and then family
members were encouraged to drop a rose onto the casket.
These roses came from Don and Judy's own garden.
I
served as a pall bearer and, of course, served as the
photographer for the service.
Afterward, Randy invited Susan,
Nancy and me to lunch at Duke's Chowder House near Green
Lake. Susan paid for us, including for my $22
cheeseburger!
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Nancy found the
burial site of "Uncle" Jack and "Aunt" Cora Bower.
Jack and Cora
were the next-door neighbors to Nancy's family on SW Stevens
Street in West Seattle.
Jack Bower's generous financial gift helped us pay for our
oak stairway. Jack was my first good Christian friend.
He had become a Christian in his late sixties. Their
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While searching
for the Bower gravesite, I found the burial place of John
and Evelyn Pfeffer. In 1981, John Pfeffer told
Nancy's dad Bob that they were planning to sell their small
home in Bellevue. John and Bob were Western Union
messenger boys together back in the 1920's and were in
business together at Havicks Auto Rebuild. Bob said
something like, "Let's see if the kids might be interested
in it." $90,000 at 12.5% interest (at the start of the
Reagan years) and it was ours.
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The SLEIGHT Family Heirloom
With the passing of Richard R. Sleight and
our mom Jean in 2011, the steel shield heirloom pictured here was
passed to Randy. But due to its historical value and for its
security it came to the Bellevue Sleight house.
The shield is perhaps the only piece of
physical family history which links our clan back to our English
roots. Our family genealogist Randy has traced those many
roots across America and back to many other nations in Europe as
well.
We were told that this shield was once
mounted by the threaded bolt on its reverse side to the front door
of the Sleight home in Great Britain. Since our father was the
only heir of his father, also Richard R. Sleight, the treasured item
passed to him as a child from his grandfather, yet another Richard
Sleight, and was preserved by his mother Violet (Grandma Vi).
When Randy was in Wood Shop class at
Madison Junior High, he fashioned the wooden plaque on which it is
now mounted. At one time, I saw that he tried to paint the
Sleight letters red, but this was corrected to black as our dad
insisted that this was the original color.
I cherish this physical reminder of family
history. It is mounted in our living room on what we call our
"Victory wall," next to
the piece of oak from Nelson's flagship at the 1805 Battle of
Trafalgar, Victory, that Annie gave me for Christmas 2008,
and the framed print of
Victory Breaks the Enemy Line by Geoff Hunt that I
purchased in 2011.
One day, this family treasure should pass
to the Auburn Sleights and eventually to Jonathan, Reuben, or Isaac.
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 October-November
Family Birthday Party
Illnesses in October postponed this family
gathering until Sunday, November 3rd. We got together in
Auburn. A light lunch and dessert followed lots of play time
for the kids. And Jadzia was introduced and well loved by
everyone.



 
The bubble maker I got for Galen works!
His 3rd birthday was on the 14th.
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 Thanksgiving
at Susan's
1
Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good,
For His mercy is everlasting.
2 The redeemed of the Lord
shall say so,
Those whom He has redeemed from the hand
of the enemy
3 And gathered from the
lands,
From the east and from the west,
From the north and from the south.
I used these first verses from Psalm 107 to
preface my prayer for our Thanksgiving meal.
The Pastrick's could not make it, but along
with Susan, Randy, and Julie Adams, we had Helen Eby, Abby, Joel's
sister visiting from Massachusetts, Georgia, and Georgia's friend
Loretta. That made fifteen adults and eight kids. Reuben and
Jonny managed to avoid the group photo.
Our upright freezer is limping along.
The eighteen pound turkey I bought six days earlier defrosted in the
top while items at the bottom stayed frozen. Nancy again
cooked the bird. I just fetched and carried.
I helped Randy reset his Gmail password and
took his old Dell laptop into my care.




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We
have an Old New President for 2025
At 11:00 PM our time, FOX News declared
Donald Trump the 47th President of the United States. None of
the other outlets, ABC, NBC, CBS, PBS, or AP made the same call
until much later. ABC called Pennsylvania for Trump at 11:06
PM. As was my normal election night practice, I stayed up
until the President-elect received the needed 270 Electoral College
votes. At midnight, the Associated Press showed Trump with 267 votes. But
surely Alaska's three votes would push him to 270. The AP
called the election for Trump at 3:54 AM our time. I'm glad I
went to bed at 2:00 AM.
My own prediction made in October was
Harris 226 - Trump 312.
The final Electoral College totals were exactly that. These numbers were based on a YouTube video I
watched that accurately analyzed what the polls were saying.
The Harris lead in battleground states was very slim at best, and the polls were under-reporting those
planning to vote for Trump. He could win all or nearly all of
those battleground states. Indeed, he won them all.
If Kamala Harris had chosen Pennsylvania Governor Josh Shapiro
instead of Minnesota Governor Tim Walz, an admitted liar, we might
have had a different result. Kamala Harris's denial of the
mental decline of Joe Biden, when the whole country saw it
on display repeatedly, especially during the Biden-Trump debate on
June 27th, cost her dearly. That her professor father taught
Marxist Economics was a "red" flag for me from the start.
Finally, her championing of abortion caused Catholic voters across
the country to swing especially towards former President Trump, this
included many Hispanic voters. Ohio Senator J.D. Vance is also
Catholic.
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 I have to admit
that I now like the choice of J.D. Vance as Trump's Vice President.
He is both competent and articulate.
The Associated Press finally called
the last state, Arizona, for Trump on Saturday, November
9th. As I had predicted, Trump won all seven
battleground states.
On this very rare day when I
traditionally indulge in alcohol, I was generally relaxed.
I did celebrate late with two shots of 92 proof Spiced Rum.
Nancy and I got our ballots in on
the 1st. Despite the Republican wins on the national
level, nearly every vote I cast in Washington State was for
naught.
I look forward to the 2028
election. Both major parties will finally have to come
up with new candidates.
Having said everything above, I am
still no MAGA fan of our President-elect.
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Randy
and Paul Attend Washington State Republican Election Party
Randy has a good friend, Paul
Dragoo, up in Snohomish County. They came down to
Bellevue on Election Night and attended the election party a
few blocks away from us at the Hyatt Regency Hotel.
Paul is pictured below with Dave
Reichert and Randy with KVI talk show host John Carlson.

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Grandparents
Day at SCS
Once again, the day before
Thanksgiving, Seattle Christian School held their annual
Grandparents Day.
Nancy and I took Valerie with us.
She was easy to motivate because I reminded her that they
had maple bars. Those are her favorite and mine too.
Charis sang in the final group,
the Kindergarteners and first graders. Her hand
motions to the song were spot on.
Along with ample donuts, the event
feels a bit like Halloween for grandparents. We all
get a special ceramic mug and then we get to fill our bags
with candy and other items.
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Christmas
Lights Go Up on Black Friday
With Thanksgiving behind us, Black
Friday and Saturday the 30th gave us a jump start on
Christmas preparations.
I bought Microsoft Office 2024 and
installed it on Randy's new laptop. Then, with help
from Nancy and Charis, I put up the Christmas lights.
After lunch, I got back to the Book of Job while the rest of
the family prepared the living room for a tree. On the
30th, Susan
took Annie, Nancy, and the girls up Highway 2 toward Stevens
Pass to cut our tree.
At 12:30 AM, early on the last day
of November, I finished writing my first of five lessons on
the Book of Job. While the book is 42 chapters long,
this first hour-long lesson just covers the first three
chapters, the prologue of chapters 1 and 2 which provide the
foundation of the book, and Job's laments in chapter 3.
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Grandkids Corner

Periodic lunches with grandpa at
Wendy's are
enjoyed by two or three granddaughters at a time. It's
another destination for our walks with the stroller.
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Happy Diwali. Diwali is an
Indian festival that celebrates the victory
of light over darkness, good over evil, and knowledge over
ignorance.
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On November 8th, Charis and
Valerie helped prepare
the garlic bed and Charis planted half of the fifty garlic
cloves.
On the 15th, a rare sunny day, I
planted dozens of bulbs including transplanted lilies.
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Treasure hunts that last over 30 minutes
keep kiddos engaged. è
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Thomas' childhood stuffed animal
Lucky Puppy is now Irene's companion.
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At least until December 6th, we
have 11 under 7.
Charis
Lorien Disher, Dec. 6, 2017
Rowen Pastrick, Dec. 11, 2017
Jonathan Peregrin Sleight, June 3,
2018
Corvin Pastrick, Sept. 27, 2019
Reuben Harvey Sleight, March 22,
2020
Valerie Grace Disher, Dec. 19, 2020
Vivienne Pastrick, Sept. 7, 2021
Galen Ezra Sitte, Nov. 14, 2021
Isaac Edmund Sleight, Sept. 8, 2022
Irene Jeannie Disher, Jan. 5, 2023
Jadzia Jacqueline Sitte, Sept. 27,
2024
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Grampy and Grammy Visit Mid-month
Bob and Kim Disher stopped by from
the 14th through the 17th. Kim always brings samples
of her cooking.
On Friday, they took Valerie and
Irene on a long stroller ride to the play area at Bellevue
Square. On Saturday, Kim and Thomas introduced Charis
to the game Risk.
All four adult Dishers will be
flying to Guatemala in February to attend the wedding of
brother Tim and Jhoanna, his second marriage. Nancy and I will have
responsibility for the three girls, including driving Charis
to and from Seattle Christian School.
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"Bomb
Cyclone" Slams Western Washington
On Tuesday the 19th, we "enjoyed" the
second largest windstorm to hit the Pacific Northwest in my
lifetime. Our power went off at 7:17 PM and was restored two
days later on Thursday at 11:50 AM. The other was the
"Columbus Day Storm," back on October 12, 1962 when I was seven.
That one came up from California through Oregon.
This picture shows the hurricane-like
eye of the storm. Having seen these Monday images, I had our
candles already out on the dining room table. During the storm
itself, I took a long walk and found that our particular power
outage covered most of Clyde Hill and stretched south to NE 8th
Street just north of Bellevue Square. On my walk back up NE
12th Street, I came across this nice Lexus LS400 smashed by a fallen
long-needle pine tree. A Toyota Camray was under the top
branches of the same tree. I took the picture of it early
Wednesday morning. That was one block southeast of us.
Since prevailing autumn winds come at us
from the west-south-west, trees train their roots to account for
this. But these winds came from the east-south-east.
We sent our frozen food up to Susan's
house. And our wood stove both kept us warm and served as our
cooking stove. On Thursday morning, Nancy prepared a poached
egg for me on it.
Seattle Christian School also lost power so
Annie and Charis were home on Wednesday. No power meant no
digital media or Internet. So Annie helped her girls discover
some old fashioned software called "books."
From the Seattle Times:
Pressure dropped 27 millibars in six hours,
about four times faster than the rate meteorologists use to label
storms as bomb cyclones. It dropped so far and so fast that, under
one method of analysis, it landed in a category reserved for the
strongest of its kind: A “super explosive cyclone.”
Bomb cyclones are common enough, but rarely
form as far south as this one did and gather so much strength so
quickly . . . As far back as the records go, a cyclone this strong
hasn’t formed before in this part of the world at this time of year.
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Bits and Pieces
 Sugar
ants are tiny, and early this month they called themselves to my
attention in the kitchen. I whipped up a batch of sugar,
Borax, and apple cider vinegar. It sure did attract them.
Belly up to the bar girls! (What a great opportunity to use my
60mm macro lens.) Two days later, not a single member of
family Formicidae was roaming our kitchen. Alas, they returned
a week later for a second helping. At month's end, the sugar
ant war still rages.
I
enjoyed the first Saturday morning monthly men's breakfast at Hope
Presbyterian Church on the 2nd. I've set my email calendar to
remind me about this event on the first Saturday of every month.
I've not been good at reaching out to make friends, but I've done it
in the past so I can do it again.
For
the first time, as I've tallied up my personal finances, I've passed
the seven-figures mark in investments and bank deposits. This
does not include the $3,690,200 that Zillow says our house is worth
or a significant amount in Nancy's accounts. While her
Social Security benefit is less than mine, it is not insignificant
after her ten years with IBM. In
light of these numbers, Nancy and I are beginning to consider where
we will increase our faith-based and family giving in 2025.
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the evening of the 12th, Nancy and I attended a "Family Dinner"
hosted by our UPC Senior Pastor George Hinman and his wife Ann.
George (the tall fellow) sat at the head of the table in their
elegant home in Laurelhurst with Nancy at his left. Ann sat at
the foot of the table with me on her left. Also in attendance
was Ken Cornell and his wife whom he met at SPU. Ken came to
SPU soon after I did and worked in Admissions when I was in
Advising. I was the MBA Coordinator when he completed his MBA.
He later worked at Northwest University in Kirkland and only this
year returned to SPU as its Vice President for Enrollment Management
and Marketing.
On
the 18th I had my periodic blood draw as a prelude to my official
Medicare-required annual physical.
I see my doctor every three months as we monitor my diabetes.
My A1c was down to 7.5. It hasn't been that low since summer
2022. My eGFR rose to 64, moving me from CKD stage 3a to stage
2. It hasn't been that good since we started measuring it last
year. My primary care provider, Dr. Robert Kelley, will turn
70 two months before I do. He was very happy with these latest
results. Alas, he will retire next May. He's been God's
hands to heal me on multiple occasions.
While these numbers are better, what is sad is that brother Don was
always interested to see improvement in them.
  According
to the Gallup survey . . ., the percentage of Republican female gun
owners has increased from 19% from 2007-2012 to 33% from 2019-2024.
Twenty-two percent of Republican
women surveyed in 2013-2018 told Gallup they owned guns, meaning
there has been a 50% increase in gun ownership among conservative
women since then.
"Meanwhile, the rate has fallen
seven percentage points among Democratic men, to 29%, and is down
five points among independent men, to 39%," Gallup added.
"Republican men remain the most likely gun owners among gender and
party identification subgroups, at 60%."
(For Christmas, I indulged in the BOGO
offer from StopBox USA, of
Spokane, WA., and got myself two of their StopBox Pro handgun
safes.)
On
the 25th, Nancy and I met with nephew Jon at his parents house.
Trevor and Taryn Rockney also stopped by. It was my first
chance to meet Trevor. Jon is his parents
Executor. He is spending every Monday afternoon at the house.
I chose a selection of Don's shirts and sweatshirts, including UW
and Seahawks items. The house needs to be emptied before it
can be sold. We brought home an odd collection of things
including framed art, garden tools, art supplies, books, sugar
(reserved with me in mind for holiday cookie baking), bird seed and
more. Despite this, we made only a very small dent in an
otherwise enormous job.
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My Quote from November |
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An American Farmer and Soldier
On April 19, 1775, British forces
were returning to Boston from the Battles of Lexington and
Concord, the opening engagements of the war. On their march
they were continually shot at by American militiamen.
Samuel Whittemore, age 78, was in
his fields when he spotted an approaching British relief
brigade under Earl Percy, sent to assist the retreat.
Whittemore loaded his musket and ambushed the British
grenadiers
of the 47th Regiment of Foot from behind a nearby stone
wall, killing one soldier. He then drew his dueling pistols,
killed a second grenadier and mortally wounded a third. By
the time Whittemore had fired his third shot, a British
detachment had reached his position; Whittemore drew his
sword and attacked. He was subsequently shot in the face,
bayoneted numerous times, and left for dead in a pool of
blood. He was found by colonial forces, trying to load his
musket to resume the fight. He was taken to Dr. Cotton Tufts
of Medford, who perceived no hope for his survival. However,
Whittemore recovered and lived another 18 years until dying
of natural causes at the age of 96.
wikipedia.org
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