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Eleanor Uhthoff Manning
(February 7, 1909 - November 16,
2009)
Aunt Ellie passed away at 4:35 a.m. on the
16th. She was thin and weak, and a very brief bout of pneumonia
was the ultimate attack. She had been saying that she
wanted to "go home." And we take this as a sign that her wish
was granted.
Susan and Grandma Ginger drove to Emerald Heights early
that morning and Nancy joined them there. Nancy was happy
that she had visited Ellie a week earlier, and Annie had showed
her her pictures from South Africa in early October. Our
whole family had also visited recently when we showed her the
photos of her 100th birthday party that I had taken. She tired
easily and the visits were brief.
Her sister Ginger was faithful in caring for Ellie, not unlike
how Ellie had cared for her when Ginger was young.
At the memorial service, Susan played her violin and she and
Ginger spoke. Jeannie Beth and Nancy sang Abide with
Me as a duet and both Nancy and Annie read scripture. And
Annie recited one of Ellie's favorite poems, The Daffodils
by William Wordsworth. I, of course, ran the video camera
and took pictures. Father Jim Eichner from Episcopal
Church of the Holy Cross in Redmond, near Emerald Heights, led
the memorial service. Aunt Ellie had moved to Emerald Heights
when it first opened.
Joan Seymour (left) joined us from Canada for the service.
Aunt Ellie had been a New York Social
Worker, having earned her BA and MSW from NYU. She and her
husband Tony took over the care of Ginger, then 13, when Ellie
was 26, when their mother Freida died in 1936. Their father,
Richard Uhthoff, had died in 1934. Then Tony died in 1956.
Ginger
married Rob Rutherford on December 29, 1945.
Upon retirement in 1975, Ellie moved to Seattle and got an
apartment in the tallest high rise in the U-District. She
was politically liberal and religiously private. She was
rather formal (in an east coast sort of way), loved to travel,
and I recall that in the 1980s I set her up with her own
computer to replace her typewriter (long before the Internet).
Nancy's family was so small and Aunt Ellie was a constant
fixture at birthdays and holiday events. She bought us
some of our silver place settings for a wedding present.
Ellie had strong views but seemed to grant my own opinions some
weight since she valued education and seemed to show more
respect for my Ph.D. than was due it. Perhaps having even
an academic doctor in the family was something she could be
proud of. Her niece had married Dr. Sleight.
At age 100 years and nine months, she was quite ready to go.
She was unique.
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JB Races at State
Jeannie Beth is a State
competitor. Her great fifth place finish, on an
illness-weakened BCS team, at the Westside Classic on October
31st saved the season for the Lady Vikings and allowed them to
race again in Pasco. JB was the 1st alternate last year
and this year placed 6th on her team, one second behind teammate
Janessa Darr.
The BCS girls placed 11th out of 16 teams, but Janessa was still
not 100%. Jeannie Beth ran well on a difficult
rolling grass course and really hopes to get back to Pasco next
year. But if you ask her, she'll tell you she still loves
the Tri-District course best. That's a good thing.
The race that qualifies them for State is the one that makes the
Pasco trip a reality. (I celebrated by wearing my team t-shirt
to work.
It's OK since it says "Strictly Business" on the
back!)
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More Awards for Nathanael (the
Dread Pirate Roberts)
Nate earned two more awards as the SPU Cross Country season
ended. His Dread Pirate Roberts costume earned him the
Best Male Costume at the Falcon Halloween Run around Green Lake.
At the end-of-season team banquet the coaches got me a nice
Falcon XC running shirt as a thank you gift for all my
photographic work. I had the photos on my web site and
created another well received show that ran throughout the
banquet at the South Lake Union Outback Steakhouse.
And my photos were also featured on the SPU athletics web site
and in The Falcon newspaper.
At the banquet we were not surprised when Nathanael received the
Most Improved award. He'd moved from #6 in 2008
to #2 this year and had a great season.
One week after the banquet, the SPU women ran at Nationals.
The amazing
Jessica
Pixler captured the NCAA Division II individual title
for the third time -- a record for a DII athlete. The
SPU women also picked up a trophy (4th place) by edging out West
Region rivals Chico State and Alaska Anchorage. They will
be in decline next year as five of seven top runners are
seniors. Perhaps the SPU men and women will have more
similar results next fall.
Nathanael also says he's having a good
quarter in the classroom. He's taking University
Foundations for U Scholars, Advanced Expository Writing, Linear
Algebra and Calculus III.
On Tuesday and Thursday nights, he's also
working in "my lab" -- making the easiest $200 a month he is
likely ever to make. It's a great quiet place to get
homework done. I only hire him because I don't want to
hire someone new for just six evening hours each week.
This is his second quarter in the lab.
These days, Nate says he plans to earn a
B.S. in Physics, a B.A. in Chemistry, and a minor in Math.
He wants to get the most out of SPU before he turns 24 and
looses his tuition benefit as my son. Then, if he's still
interested in Education, he can do that for his Master's degree.
Nancy
Spends November for PEO Star Scholarships
Nancy has spent nearly ever free moment this
month working with a few girls from Bellevue Christian School,
helping them complete applications for the $2500 PEO Star
Scholarship. She was successful in helping one BCS girl
win one of only two awarded in Washington State last year.
This year, each PEO Chapter may sponsor only one girl, so Nancy
has been busy trying to match up to girls with other chapters
(including one in Montana). I hope this labor of love is
successful again this year. It's way more work than she
has time for. But the deadline is November 30th so I have
hope that she can return to her many other projects before
Christmas.
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Pearl (age 4) |
Diana (age 10) |
Shadow (age 2) |
Ginger (age 17) |
Adopt-a-thon Benefits All
King County Animal Care and Control held
an adopt-a-ton at local Pet Pros stores on Saturday the
21st. The County is trying to get out of the
animal control business. They waived the adoption
fee, so for the price of the license ($30 per cat) we
could get another cat.
The adoption event was to run from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00
p.m. and the store closed at 6:00 p.m. I finally
got Nancy to join me at 3:30 while JB stayed home and
did homework.
That late in the day they had about eight cats left.
Nancy liked two black males but I pointed out that
females might get along better with Ginger and Diana and
we couldn't tell the two boys apart. I could tell
she would like another cat but she was incapacitated
with indecision. She has a big heart.
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Although
little Pearl was very subdued, her write-up was
wonderful (except the part about "not good with
children"). I picked her out (in my mind) but
wanted to check out all the other candidates. Then
I was standing next to the cage of a scruffy cat named
Talula. She was very active and reached out and patted
me. I said to myself, "OK, you're going home with
me.") She also had a good report. When I
suggested we take Pearl and Talula home, Nancy agreed.
The folks at the store and the King County workers were
also delighted, since their event had ended and we were
taking the last two to be adopted that day. The
store gave us $20 off on kitty litter and I filled out
the paperwork while Nancy chased inquisitive Talula all
over the store. Pearl sat on a "cat castle" and
showed her shyness. We were also given all the
unused kitty litter from the event.
The name Talula was not going to stay and so far
"Shadow" has replaced it -- and for good reason.
Shadow is a people cat. She is playful, snuggly,
and likes to hang out with the family (to shadow us) --
especially in the kitchen. On the other hand,
Pearl (who I also call Jewel) often hides in a cave of
furniture on the second floor. So far she comes
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But
last night Pearl slept with Nate, Ginger slept with JB, and
Shadow slept with Nancy and me. (Diana often hunts rats
outside most nights.)
And Shadow loves to hang out with Grandma Jean. Jean's not
too keen on it when Shadow walks on her. But I'm sure she
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Each
day of their first week together, the four cats have gotten
along a little better. The new cats are still wary of
Ginger and Diana (and each other) -- but we are seeing progress.
And all of them are much loved by the family. |
New Overpass on NE 10th Street
On the way to Thanksgiving dinner at Susan's, we
had our first chance to cross
I-405 on the new NE 10th Street overpass. This makes it
easier for us to cross Bellevue to Overlake hospital and go
north on I-405.
When we moved to Bellevue in December 1981, there was one
8-story building in Bellevue and there were horses on Clyde Hill
just a few blocks away from our house.
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Thanksgiving 2009
Nancy cooked the turkey! She did a great
job. Susan introduced us to William (whom we called Eugene
since his Chinese name sounded like that). William is the
son on the friend of a Japanese musician Susan had been friends
with when she was in Yokosuka. He is a freshman at the UW hoping
to study Bioengineering.
We played Pictionary before the meal, adults against kids, and
the kids won. William was of course new to this game. And
Grandma Jean had fun but was little help to Susan and myself. |
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After Thanksgiving Tradition
Continues at the Seattle Marathon
On Sunday the 29th, the five Sleights joined Coach Sloan and
other members of the BCS Cross Country team to staff our usual
water station on the south side of Seward Park (mile 12 of the
26.2 mile Seattle Marathon course.)
Annie reported that this was her 9th year at this.
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Bits and Pieces
My
annual PDP review this month began with Jeff saying, "I could never
write a job description for you." It went very well. He
asked me to develop a task tracking system that I could master and teach
to others. He understands that I am so busy that regular and
one-off tasks can get jumbled. He also asked me to work on my
health issues. It's not something he can ask as a boss -- but he
does it as a friend. I'm seriously at the start of another
exercise/weight loss season. Having gotten up to 207, I'm feeling
good about being back under 200 (at 199). Can I be under 190 by
January? Nancy has the low guess, hoping I will get to 169.5 by
March 17, 2010.
At
the end of November we are in the middle of Hebrews 10 on Saturday
morning. In January we will get back into the Psalms.
Perhaps in February I hope to start the group through Revelations, in
honor of Phil Voigt.
With
Nancy's strong encouragement, Jeannie Beth has joined the Bellevue High
School Gymnastics team. She has been practicing with them for the
last two weeks. Because 1A BCS does not offer that sport, she is
allowed to compete for 3A BHS. She says she is entered in the vault and
balance beam this coming Thursday.
I
plan to continue as the photographer for the BCS Wrestling team.
Where Wrestling and Gymnastics coincide, I will cover Gymnastics.
I still covet a Nikon 70-200mm VR (or the more expensive VR II).
And with Gymnastics I have a more pressing need for it. My good AF
Nikkor 80-200mm 1:2.8 D lens will have to really prove itself this
coming week or make way for the 70-200mm top-of-the-line lens. But I
still can't afford the new big lens.
The
day before Thanksgiving I moved many boxes of assorted papers and
computer equipment out of my SPU office and down to my Bellevue basement
office. That home office is a storage disaster right now.
The corner of the family room has become my work space for the past few
years. I'm looking forward to going back to work after the Thanksgiving
break, with a much cleaner office.
Just
before Thanksgiving I got my H1N1 vaccine shot. But I got it
by mistake! I misread the email and went over to the campus health
center just before they closed and they let me pay my $5, no questions
asked. But they were only supposed to take students "24 and
under." And those over 24 must have "a serious health condition"
to get a shot on December 1. It's not like me to jump the queue.
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